After the operation, still here

Jane Fonda talk on Ted about the new "third age" and how she feels now that she is "in" it,
how all changed but not yet the perception of the "old" that are thought still "decrepit" and in fact, one feels happier, more free and the third, "act" can also bring closure.

And yes, we can always have the power "how we take" what happens to us, how we repond to a situation