You can bring joy to yourself!
You do not have to depend on someone to offer you chocolate bunnies, birthday gifts or a beautiful bouquet of flowers.
Here are those I bought myself this Eastern. Dedicated to my first husband, who loved (well, at the beginning at least) to offer me flowers. Dedicated to all the good days we did have together. Helping me to remember, those too.
And remembering myself: I do not need any one to bring me joy, most of the time, I can do it myself.
Well, it is still nice when you get from someone else, but it is not the only way.