I get the new videos from TED.com, and this morning, I listened to the actress and voice coach Patshy Rodenburg's speech, about the importance of acting - true. You can listen and look to it in my Communication blog.
From there, I got to her second part, found it on the YouTube. It's title is The Second Circle. Being there in the moment, being connected. Instead of going in ourselves or occupying someone others space.
It is also interesting to look, in this and the first video to her body language. Strong, but nothing threatening. She is always in the what she calls "the second circle"!